Cougar Dating Statistics — Could You Be Next?

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As I analysis the subject of older ladies courting youthful males, I’m considerably stunned to see some statistics flowing from «throughout the pond» within the UK in addition to right here within the United States. Gleaning the next from the BBC and NBC Network News, I felt it essential to share them with you. It appears as if the Cougar «craze» is greater than only a mania. It seems that ladies who’re older are additionally reaching past simply establishing management of their careers. They are branching out to shamelessly embrace their ardour for all times and for having fun with it with a person who can sustain with them and stimulate them out and in of the boudoir. For these naysayers who inform me {that a} youthful man is «simply out for intercourse» and will not severely think about marriage to an older ladies (I hear this most from older males who’re threatened by these younger bucks) these stats will probably be an eye fixed opener?

30% of all ladies match the invoice of being a Cougar girl.
35% of girls not presently courting choose youthful males.
34% of girls 40+ date youthful males.
17% of girls of their 50’s choose males of their 40’s.
25% of older British ladies are married to youthful males.
(Sources: BBC documentary: «Sugar Mummies». The Today Show, NBC, November 21, 2009)

Older males who’re threatened by the youthful males muscling in on their territory say that youthful males solely need older ladies for intercourse and monetary safety. If you have a look at the primary causes youthful ladies date older males, the argument could be made that they need the older males for monetary safety. The older males need the youthful ladies for intercourse. Older males declare that marriages between youthful males and older ladies will not final. Perhaps they are going to final simply so long as the marriages between older males and youthful ladies do. The distinction is, the intercourse will probably be higher for the older girl; or as a Cougar stated to me, «My ex husband was 70 years outdated after we divorced. If I’m going to have intercourse with a person, it will be with a person whose pores and skin nonetheless matches him!»

I suppose whether it is okay with the older males that youthful ladies need them for what they’ll present, then why should not it’s okay with them that youthful males need older ladies for a lot of the identical factor? I suppose it bothers these males to know that older ladies have extra to supply a youthful man: maturity, confidence, sensuality, sexuality, monetary stability, perspective, and the libido of an older girl most intently matches that of the youthful man. This cannot essentially be stated concerning the older man; except in fact, he’s popping Viagra.

Older ladies know extra of what they need and do not play the video games youthful ladies do. I seek the advice of with hundreds of women and men and so they repeatedly inform me that the match up between them is far more fulfilling on many ranges (not simply intercourse, however hey- it sweetens the equation) than relationships with males their age.

Older ladies say they discover their eyes wandering when a good-looking, younger man comes strolling by and they’re out with somebody their age or older. They have a look at their eating companion and assume,» Will I be operating to the drug retailer to purchase him Depends in 5 years?» They have a look at the deep wrinkles in his pores and skin, discover the yellow/grey of his enamel and receding hairline, marvel if he’s going to have the ability to sustain with them on the mountain climbing path or dancing until daybreak after which their thoughts wanders off to the person 20 years their junior who passionately kissed them within the doorway at midnight whereas they strolled alongside the boardwalk.

They inform me they marvel at occasions why they resisted courting youthful males for therefore lengthy. They discounted them because of their age. It wasn’t till they began to actually get to know a few of these youthful males that they realized that lots of them have the maturity and knowledge of males who’re older and gravitate towards older ladies with whom they really feel they’ve one thing in widespread.

Choosing a youthful man to this point isn’t any totally different from selecting a person your age or older to this point. You nonetheless have the identical standards, you simply search for it in a youthful package deal. Even a person aged 50 could be immature, obtuse and boring. What a person is at 50, he was at 25, so do not assume simply because a person is youthful that he’ll match the invoice.

But when you do defy your personal ageism bias and exit with a number of youthful males, you might be pleasantly stunned at how a lot you even have in widespread. The proper youthful man for you can be delicate, enjoyable, communicative, an excellent listener, a powerful shoulder and give you devotion and fervour that you will have longed for however couldn’t discover in somebody whose attitudes have been formed within the 60’s and 70’s.

Who is aware of? You may wind up one other very pleased Cougar statistic!